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  Do your arguments or disagreements with your partner seem to last forever? Is it difficult to find a solution to even the smallest issue? In Part 1 of this series, we looked at the habits that we all have that hinder us from finding a resolution to our every day issues in our relationships. In Part 2, we will be looking at some of the ways that we can combat these bad habits.  The majority of couple's disagreements boil down to communication difficulties misunderstandings. A couples counsellor can help couples to see where they are going wrong in their communication techniques and offer different tools to assist them in communicating more effectively.  This blog will cover four of the ways that couples can communicate more healthily during an argument. This is not a full list. However, if you would like more information, please click here .  1. Deal With Issues Calmly: Many couples will find it easier to discuss an issue when they are calmer and are not as emotion...

  Do your arguments or disagreements with your partner seem to last forever? Is it difficult to find a solution to even the smallest issue? In Part 1 of this series, we will look at the habits that we all have that hinder us from finding a resolution to our every day issues in our relationships. When couples seek out help from a couples counsellor, in many cases they know what their specific issues and difficulties are. They understand that they disagre on parenting, intimacy, or one of the partners have done something to upset the other. However, they struggle to communicate and find solutions to these issues. They seek out counselling in order to have a third person who is not a part of their relationship to weigh in on the conversation.  A couples counsellor recognises their difficulties and assists them in communicating more effectively so that they can have better and more productive conversations with each other. What many couples do not realise is that there are ma...

When starting a new relationship, talking about our exes can be difficult. No one really likes to hear about what their currrent love interest has been up to before them. It can cause them to feel insecure or even wonder if you are interested in them. However, having this tough conversation can help both of you in the long run! In this article, we will discuss how talking about your past relationships can benefit your current relationship !  Your Unique Blueprint To Love: I guess you are wondering how talking about someone else can help you learn about the person in front of you? As you date and get to know other people who may be a potential life partner, you also learn about yourself and what you like and dislike. Do you enjoy public displays of effection? Do you enjoy receiving cards and gifts? Do you require a high level of intimacy? All of these questions are answered by having different experiences with other partners. Let’s consider yourself as a blank sheet of paper before ...

  Men vs Women: Why We Cannot Understand Each Other (Part 2) Trouble Communicating With Your Partner? Do you feel as if you and your partner do not understand each other? Do your arguments seem to go round in circles without finding a resolution? It could be down to the fact that men and women come from two different worlds!  In the previous part to this article we discussed the four main differences between men and women. The first was their biological makeup. Secondly, we discussed gender identity and gender norms. Lastly, we covered how each sex learned about emotional expression. If you have not read Part 1, please click here .   In the final part of the article, we will be discussing how the above four factors can impact on the way that men and women see their relationship - specifically how they differ in prioritising the relationship, rate their relationship satisfaction, and finally, how both sexes deal with conflict within the relationship.  Are “We” Number...